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Friday, February 24, 2012

amouthygirl:

amouthygirl:

Infighting is something that always happens. It has always occurred since I’ve been part of the tumblr leftist world, and it will no doubt continue to happen. It’s fine. It’s whatever. It happens. We all disagree about different things and not everybody is always going to see eye to eye, but it doesn’t mean we can’t continue to be friends.

If you have a problem with someone, talk to them privately about it. It doesn’t need to be a public affair in which the entire world can view it. It doesn’t need to be personal attacks - in fact it should never be about personal attacks. If you have a problem with someone’s beliefs, critique their beliefs on the public forum. If you have a problem with someone’s personality and can’t keep it to yourself, address them privately. To do otherwise is immature, shallow, and deplorable.

Another thing, don’t try to drag other people into your drama. If you have problems with someone, address them to that person. It doesn’t need to turn into some sort of gangbang where one circle of people is attacking another. Don’t try to spread drama. It’s sickening and uncalled for. What I’m saying is leave people out of it. Leave me the fuck out of it unless I’m directly involved.

I’ve seen this happen time and time again. Hell, it has even happened to me before. This isn’t directed at any particular party, but recent events (and you all know what I’m talking about) have prompted me to write this. I don’t give a fuck if you don’t like it. I don’t care if you unfollow me. All I know is that I have friends who have been hurt by this type of thing and I’m sick of seeing it. It isn’t fun for anybody and it’s depressing.

I feel like I should reblog this because it’s very relevant right now. I come home from work and everyone is an idiot. Fuck you guys. Seriously, fuck the lot of you.

I don’t see how grown adults picking on a kid is acceptable behavior. Or how its ok for certain bloggers to personally attack others but when that blogger gets upset and then attacks them in retaliation they get called pathetic.

Or when grown fucking adults mock someone for having depression.